Here’s a secret: As a photographer, I know that basically no one feels confident about getting photos taken. Nearly every client warns me that they are terrible in photos.
If you have ever had thoughts like “I’m not photogenic.” “I’m super bad at getting photos taken.” “I’m such an awkward person.” you are not alone.
But when you are at a point where you really need and want photos of yourself, there are some things you can do to feel more confident.
Prepare beforehand
Plan your outfit. It should be something you are comfortable wearing and that you feel nice in.
Consider getting professional hair and/or makeup for your shoot.
Making your session a special day is an awesome way to trick yourself into having fun! Think about getting your hair and makeup professionally styled, or another way that you like to celebrate yourself.
Communicate with your photographer. Letting them know that you feel nervous, or about preferences for angles can help them guide you into poses that result in photos you love. A good photographer will do this anyway but more communication can never be a bad thing.
Focus on props and activities during the shoot.
Bring three things that represent you and your interests. The props you bring also depend on the purpose of your photoshoot but some ideas include; tools you use to complete your work, items you use for your hobbies like a paintbrush or knitting needles, a childhood favorite toy, or anything you have in your life that represents a part of you.
Having something to interact with can get your mind off of feeling self-conscious. The resulting photos look real because you are doing something real!
My branding clients have activities built into their sessions, massage therapists can give a massage, or an artist can work a little on their painting for a photoshoot.Family and portrait clients can have activities like games, showing a hobby, or twirling a fancy dress.
Prepare your mind
Go into it knowing that you can trust yourself and your photographer.
It’s totally normal to feel nervous, but as the session goes on, you’ll start to relax. Trust your photographer, embrace the experience, and don’t stress about getting everything “perfect.” The best photos capture real moments, not staged perfection.
So next time you step in front of the camera, remember: plan well, give yourself something to do, and most importantly, have fun with it! You’ll be amazed at how much more confident you feel—and how great your photos turn out.
Need a photographer who’ll help you feel comfortable and confident? Let’s chat!